1. 'Looking' is what we do when we focus our attention
Looking is what we all do naturally when we focus our attention on anything present in our consciousness. For example, right now, as you read this, your attention is focused mostly on this text, ignoring to one degree or another everything else.
2. Notice that you can move your attention at will
Move the focus of your attention away from this text for a moment and place it on the feel of your breath as it comes into and goes out of your body.
Breathe in, breathe out. At the moment each outbreath ends, count it silently: 1, 2, 3, etc. until 10. If you lose count, simply start over from 1. Do this for two or three minutes, and then come back and continue reading this text.
3. Practice moving your attention at will
You just saw that you can focus your attention on your breath. Now stop reading for a moment and move the focus of your attention to your tongue. Focus your attention on the feel of your tongue in your mouth. Do this for two to three minutes, then come back to the text.
4. What is 'inward looking'?
Now move the focus of your attention inward to what it feels like to be you.
What you are looking for is the feel of what you would call me. You are looking for exactly what you refer to when you say the word 'me.' You are looking for the me-ness of you.
Here's a way to see what I am speaking about. Many people have found this helpful. Try to evoke a moment in your childhood. It can be anything, really. See if you can remember what it felt like to be you then.
That's exactly what it feels like to be you right now, isn't it? Look and see. It's the same sense of me. Exactly the same me-ness.
Try to put your attention on that subtle feeling of me for just a tenth of a second.
5. That's all there is to it
That's all there is to the simple act of inward looking that is the actual solution to the common experience of life as misery and dissatisfaction.
If you followed along, you have just accomplished that act and set a course towards sanity and satisfaction.
In time, your relationship with your life will change. Things that used to drive you crazy won't have the same effect on you anymore. Patterns of neurotic behavior and self-destructive reactions will be replaced by more positive, non-destructive ones.
The distance between you and your life will diminish and a new kind of intimacy with your life will slowly begin to emerge.
Just like that. It starts with one look.
Thank you for your time and attention. I wish you good health and a satisfying life.
John Sherman
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